Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Good Bye 2014 Hello 2015

SO much has happened since we last updated our blog.... (I might actually finish all those post that I started and never finished ;))  But for now this is how we finished 2014:

We spent a wonderful Christmas with the Hernandez family.  We spent some time in Vegas and Madera filled with lots of laughter, food, and DRIVING.  John was great and did all the driving so I could try to keep our babies happy.
 I don't think my family has ever done gingerbread houses so John and I decided to change that.  Everyone had lots of fun even though they were dragging their feet at first.







 We went to the Casino and bowled.  It was the first time my dad had bowled!  I see where we get our athletic abilities since he had a few spares!




 Lots and lots of wrestling thanks to Gustavo who started it all.


I didn't really have my phone on me in Madera, so I didn't take pictures.  I was enjoying time with the family.  Gustavo is being deployed to Cuba in a few weeks so we all got together and had a nice carne asada and cheesecake.  We also spent some time at the Jackson's playing Taboo.  Girls vs. Guys.  The girls won in "double overtime," and Rosa did an awesome job helping us secure our win.

We had a mini Christmas celebration with the Nashs'.  It was nice and quite.  The boys loved the books and toys.  And mama Nash, papa Nash and Great Grandma Nash loved their gifts as well.  It is nice to be able to spend some one on one time with them during the holidays.  Although we do miss the rest of the Nash clan.  




 2015
Personally I am excited for this year.  Not to sure why but I am planning on being with my boys more.  Since moving to Murray, I have had a lot more time with my little family and it has been so nice.  Working at the UDOH (Utah Department of Health), is really nice.  I don't have to worry about the "little things" or drama.  I miss interacting with the community and all the friends I made down there.  But the move has allowed me to be able to see my college gang.  More importantly I see John more often and that has been amazing.  I can't even explain.  

So what's in store for us in  2015?  Montana? Changing jobs? Blogging? Crafting with my boys?  Who knows...  One thing I will try is to: "LIVE THE GOSPEL JOYFULLY."


Monday, August 19, 2013

August 2013

After a long break... we are back!

Much has happened since Tel Aviv:

1) John has accepted to go to the University of Utah Law School program and will start Aug 19
2) Vaughn is 20 months old & he is just the cutest little boy ever!  He loves to laugh and make people happy
3) Angelica is expecting our 2nd little boy and we will meet him around Aug 11


Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Synopsis since Tel Aviv

Well due to popular demand, I have decided that I will grace the many (like 5) fans of our blog, with a new blog post. I know, I know, I am so gracious to let you all bask in my warm words, and to be filled with the knowledge of the many happenings that have happened since I last wrote back in Tel Aviv.

In a nutshell since, Tel Aviv, Vaughn has gotten bigger, I graduated, Angelica dropped the number of hours that she is working, and I now work at Centro Hispano again. There you happy?....What? Its a post...that is what you asked for isn't it? Ok so you want some more huh, well then, I suppose I can be persuaded to write a little more.

To update you guys more about the ever amazing and exciting events of our lives, I can let you know that Angelica is pregnant again! Ok, not really, I just threw that out for shock factor. Like I would really announce that over a blog post, and not through calling everyone. In all seriousness though, Vaughn is 8 months as of a couple of days ago. He is doing really well eating solids. Basically anything that we eat, he wants to eat, so it has made eating a little bit more tricky. We basically take shifts snacking in the kitchen around the corner from Vaughn's view so that we can eat a cookie, or something like that, since every time something goes in our mouth, Vaughn wants a bite, or at least something to eat as well. The same goes for anytime a cup gets pressed to our mouth, he begins to cry until he gets some too, then he squeals with excitement and delight. Vaughn still doesn't crawl, or walk, but he does scoot on his butt small distances, and he really likes walking around with our support under his arm pits, the distances progressively get longer. In additional news about Vaughn, he now says "Mama" and "Dada," so that's fun. Also Vaughn had his third haircut Sunday Morning to celebrate his 8th month on this planet. That's a pretty good summary of things with Vaughn.

In new news about Angelica since Tel Aviv, she has cut down on her hours so that she can be at home more with Vaughn, which is something that she has really enjoyed. She is still working at Centro Hispano, and continues with her projects of helping with HIV Testing and Education, as well as working to decrease the use of Tobacco among Hispanics/Latinos throughout Utah. Last month Angelica turned the big 30! In honor of her major accomplishment, I decided to throw her a surprise birthday party. According a good source, Mel, I am the first to be able to accomplish such an amazing feat as deceiving Angelica long enough, and well enough to throw a surprise party for her. Let me fill you all in on the secret, its called procrastinating, and constantly forgetting about the upcoming event, until about a week before, and leading her to believe that due to a number of conflicting schedules, we won't be able to do anything for her birthday. In other words, if you can forget about it until the last minute and then scramble to get it pulled together, using the only small gaps you have available away from her, to make quick errands, order cakes, buy pinatas, and consult with her friends, then it is very much possible. I think that was Mel's problems all these many years, is that she always got to excited about throwing a party, and as a result of her excitement gave away the secret of the party. Anywho (Yeah that's right I said Anywho, and not Anyways...It's not a typo), the party was loads of fun. It was as traditional a Mexican party as it could be. We had two large Piñatas, lots of carne asada, beans, tortillas, rice, tres leches cake, mexican candies, and lots of family and friends. The only thing missing was the loteria game, some dancing, and mariachi singers. Among the highlights of the party, was Angelica's breaking of the bat while trying to hit her piñata. Seems like Angelica is going on a breaking streak these last couple of months, because among other things that typically are not broken while striking hard surfaces, Angelica seemed to manage breaking my Nalgene Bottle from our honey moon in Yosemite. So, I guess the morale of the story is, don't let Angelica handle nearly indestructible things, because she will manage to break them. It's like she's a universal Kryptonite to all of these indestructible items.

Finally, we come to the best part of this whole post, the part where I tell you all about what has been happening with me. I know, I know, you all only read this blog, because you are interested in my life. With that being said, in April I graduated from BYU with my B.A. in Arabic. That was really exciting. As part of my final semester at BYU, I worked on a great paper talking about Homosexuality in Iraq, and the causes of violence in the region. I think you would all be surprised to learn what I learned, but I'm not gonna tell you. Other than graduation, the next big event in my life was having the pleasure of passing my first Kidney Stone, only about 2 weeks after starting my new job at Centro Hispano, and about a month after quitting the worst job ever, working as a Telemarketer for all of one week. Let's just say, had I not quit, well then the Kidney Stone would never had happened, because I would have died from boredom first while working at that job. Imagine 9 hours a day sitting at a phone waiting for someone to pickup. There is no fun wait music, just the constant, ring, ring, ring, ring, ring, ring, ring....for hours and just sitting there waiting, waiting, waiting, hoping that the next leap could be the leap to finally take you home, back to your time....Wait that was Quantum leap. That was basically the idea of the job though. Thankfully, I now work at a job that I enjoy, and that keeps me busy, with fun tasks. I am the Community Outreach Educator for the Low-Income Taxpayer Clinic. This means that I get to do all the advertising, marketing, teaching and contacting of people for the clinic, to try and increase clientele, as well as to educate the community on relevant tax issues. Its really fun. I guess I should mention that I am studying to take the LSAT in October, so we will see what happens.

Things around here have been pretty busy, since arriving home from Tel Aviv. I don't promise anything, but I can at least guarantee that I will try to do better to update this blog more frequently. Look forward to talking to you all in another 7-8 months!

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Tel Aviv...3:37 AM

So I thought I would do the cool thing, that all the cool kids are doing or at least that I presume they are doing while they sit in their perspective airports waiting to go home from our study abroad, and writing a blog post. If you check out facebook today you will probably notice that most of the students from my study abroad have posted about sitting in the terminal at Tel Aviv, or how they are waiting to get on their flight, etc etc etc. Not that their is anything wrong with that, but I decided with the endless amount of time that I have, I would join suit and write a blog post while sitting here.

This blog post is mostly to say that yes I am coming and home, yes I am excited to see Angelica and Baby "V" (for the first time), and yes, I do know that I haven't posted in a while nor have I finished many of the postings that I have started from so long ago. Such as, what happened to the second have of my Petra trip? Where are the photos from Wadi Rum? What about all of those other adventures in Jordan? And wait a minute, didn't I just spend two weeks in Israel? So where are all of the photos and the posts about it all? Well the short answer is, they are coming. The slightly longer answer is, that the internet where we were staying was not conducive to blogging, or almost anything else for that matter. It worked really well for checking e-mails. With that said, you should all expect to start seeing photos, stories, and other excerpts from the last 2 months start rolling in, within the next couple of days to weeks. So no worries, I will work my best to get things posted and to get everyone up to date on what is happening on the ground. Thanks for your patience. Until then please enjoy some pictures of "V".


Tuesday, December 6, 2011

The Nativity

Courtesy of Blue River Baptist Church - No Affiliation with them

Since "V" was born on the 22nd of Nov. I have spent a lot of time skypeing with Angelica and trying to build a connection with my son. I can say that prior to my leaving, and from the time I found out that Angelica was pregnant and that I was gonna miss the first month of so of my child's life I was always worried about that connection. I worried for a good part of the pregnancy and I am pretty sure that it wasn't until about the month of August that I finally found some reassurance that my being gone, wouldn't have a negative effect on the way that I bonded with my son. For much of the time prior to receiving that reassurance I really worried about how I was going to bond with my son, and spent most free time, and free thoughts contemplating that, and occasionally found myself praying fervently that I would be able to form that bond with him and that my time here wouldn't negatively effect my relationship with him. 

This concern can come from never really all that connected to children my entire life. I have never cared for holding them, and have always found it awkward to interact with them, since I don't know what to do with them, and end up usually just making faces at them or treating them like a big person and talking normal to them. Due to that lack of being in love with little babies prior to his birth I was legitimately concerned that I would end up being uninterested in him, or worse that I would find him Ugly, and just not want anything to do with him, screwing up his life forever and giving him all sorts of psychological issues. Needless to say, none of that has happened, and I have fallen absolutely in love with "V" and am so excited to get back home to him and finally hold him in my arms and experience that first sensation of holding him and seeing him in person, and looking into his eyes, and hopefully having him recognize me somehow as his daddy.


With that, the other day while I was at church I had this crazy idea come to my mind, which directly relates to Christmas and the whole birth story. Normally in my family, and that is normally within the last 5-7 years, we tell the story of the Nativity while we act it out. This all started at some point during my mission, when my family decided that it would be fun to do with all of the grandkids and since then it has become tradition. Anyways...at church the other day I started thinking about how when I get home Baby "V" will probably be the sit in for baby Jesus, my niece Elizabeth will be Mary and she will ride around on my Dad, who will play the donkey. Anyways, I figured that would leave me as Joseph, being "V's" father and all, but I decided it would be more fitting if I were a wise man this year, and this is why: 1) I will have heard of the news of his birth by a miraculous sign, in this case I skyped the whole thing. 2) I will begin to travel to the west from the east following hearing and learning of this good news, just like the wise men did. 3) I will be bringing with me gifts for the child. Now I just need to figure out the best gifts for him since gold is a little out of my price range. 4) I will arrive after he has grown some and it will not be right when he is born, rather he will be a month old. With those reasons, I felt that it would be more appropriate to be a wise man during the re-enactment, since I will have been living in their shoes for the last 4 months, and for the whole journey home.

Having this situation has allowed new insights into the story of the nativity, which never had occurred to me mostly, since we always think of the short narration, and then that's about it. However, I can only imagine what things were going through the thoughts of the "Wise Men" from the east as they were preparing for the birth of Christ, as well as on their journey to find the Christ child.


I am really looking forward to getting home and seeing my new little baby, and celebrating Christmas. I pretty much have a running calendar that has been going for the last 2 weeks. The anticipation is killing me, just like I'm sure it was for the Wise Men as they were traveling, as well as waiting for the sign of the Messiah's birth.

Saturday, December 3, 2011

The many faces of "V"

I have recently been enjoying the many faces of "V", which Angelica has been nice enough to send me, via e-mail. Since I am not in the country to be able to enjoy these precious moments of his first couple of weeks, it has been such a great blessing to have modern technology to aid in connecting me and my son together even though I am thousands of miles away from him.

As part of my connection with my son, I've been taking the liberty to share that connection with my fellow students, my roommates, my teachers, my friends, etc. basically anyone who is foolish enough to get caught by me and forced to look at my new baby. I'm pretty sure that no one doubts that I am a very happy and proud father, and with faces like these how could I not be? Also, part of why I am so eager to share all the pictures and info I know of with those on my Study Abroad, is due in part to the fact that with 9 months of everyone knowing about how baby "V" was going to be born while I am here in Jordan, he has essentially become the Study Abroad Baby. As a result, I feel it is my duty to make sure that everyone knows what is going on with him, and that they also have adequate opportunity to see him as well.

Therefore, to continue that sense of communal ownership, and to fulfill the saying that says "It takes a tribe to raise a child" I thought I would pass the enjoyment and the laughs of his amazing faces on to you. So please enjoy.

What you Looking at?
Pop-Eye
He's been hitting the Bottle Hard


Just like his mom, doesn't like pictures taken of him
He's tuckered himself out, so peaceful

Friday, December 2, 2011

Baby Vaughn, See Him Develop

So...it's been a week or since Vaughn was born, and he has incredibly changed a lot. Who would have thunk? I know I didn't expect him to continue to change in features after he was born. I just always assumed that he would have certain features that would stay the same and that would be it, granted he would get older, and more mature, so I was really blown away each time I saw him and how much he changed from day to day.  Here is the list of aliens that I feel he has looked like from the beginning up until now. Please enjoy.


For those who don't know who this Alien is, he was born in 1987 and battled against Arnold Schwarzeneggar, trying to collect his head, for his prize. This is The Predator.

Nien Nunb JKTCG.jpg

This cuddly looking alien had his debut in the final movie of Star Wars, Return of the Jedi, in 1983. His name is Nien Nunb and he worked his way into history by co-piloting the Millenium Falcon with Lando Calrissian in the attack against the Death Star over the Ewok home planet.

 

This cute squid alien baby, found a place in the hearts of millions back in 1997, when he was born during the movie Men in Black, and sent Will Smith, Agent J, for a ride around a car and then finally spitting up all over his face. I feel my baby is much more cute and adorable, but I couldn't help but see the resemblance between the two.

Since I know that everyone loves seeing baby pictures, I decided that I would include a few other pictures of Vaughn, just for the viewing pleasure. These were taken shortly after his first bath, given by his Grandma Gudelia.